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I've noticed many guys spit great game, get the phone number;
and then fuck up.
This one's for you ALL.
HOW TO DEAL with PHONE NUMBERS and TEXT A GIRL
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and then fuck up.
This one's for you ALL.
HOW TO DEAL with PHONE NUMBERS and TEXT A GIRL
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Guys fuck this up so easily.
• They forget they have balls and become the overly nice guy
or
• They lose their shit and text shit like "fuck you bitch"
What the fuck.
• They forget they have balls and become the overly nice guy
or
• They lose their shit and text shit like "fuck you bitch"
What the fuck.
The first thing, is to make sure that she knows what's up.
make sure she isn't giving her number just to be polite, like a treat to a Dog.
It shouldn't be friend to friend.
It MUST be Man to Woman.
You're not taking her number to send memes all the time either.
make sure she isn't giving her number just to be polite, like a treat to a Dog.
It shouldn't be friend to friend.
It MUST be Man to Woman.
You're not taking her number to send memes all the time either.
The only reason you're taking her number is because the logistics do not fit right now, because of which you can't fuck her right now.
You take her number so that you can meet her again when the correct logistics are in place to Fuck her.
It has to be clear.
You take her number so that you can meet her again when the correct logistics are in place to Fuck her.
It has to be clear.
Notice her level of Emotional Investment.
She should be into it.
Is she somewhat listening? or is she TOTALLY into it.
You must be polarizing for that to happen.
Give her strong emotions.
Disqualify her.
Challenge her.
She should be into it.
Is she somewhat listening? or is she TOTALLY into it.
You must be polarizing for that to happen.
Give her strong emotions.
Disqualify her.
Challenge her.
She should be Trying for rapport.
Eg- "oh Reaaaallly?"
usually High Pitch, Questions.
You should be breaking it, or stay neutral.
Tip for breaking tonality- Ending sentences in an assertive manner, in a Deep (Masculine) Pitch.
She will say "Here's my Numbeeerrrr"
Eg- "oh Reaaaallly?"
usually High Pitch, Questions.
You should be breaking it, or stay neutral.
Tip for breaking tonality- Ending sentences in an assertive manner, in a Deep (Masculine) Pitch.
She will say "Here's my Numbeeerrrr"
Be discreet when taking her number.
Don't ask for it in front of her friends.
She will feel judged and risk being slut-shamed for giving her number.
It is a pretty big deal for her when her friends are around.
Make sure she's turned away from her friends, and be quick
Don't ask for it in front of her friends.
She will feel judged and risk being slut-shamed for giving her number.
It is a pretty big deal for her when her friends are around.
Make sure she's turned away from her friends, and be quick
Once you get the number, text her your name ASAP.
Tell her you're gonna text her your name right now.
you don't want to be the random guy from the club who texts her out of nowhere.
Tell her you're gonna text her your name right now.
you don't want to be the random guy from the club who texts her out of nowhere.
How to proceed:
The purpose is clear- meeting her again.
Don't make things more complicated then they are.
Be simple, casual, straight to the point.
If you show too much interest, she will think like she's the only girl you're texting, which is a HUGE turn off.
The purpose is clear- meeting her again.
Don't make things more complicated then they are.
Be simple, casual, straight to the point.
If you show too much interest, she will think like she's the only girl you're texting, which is a HUGE turn off.
Default Text- Text her the next day( after the name)
"What does your night look like"
Don't put the question mark. Shows nonchalance
If she says doing nothing, keep that casual vibe going and say
"cool. Let's hang out."
"Where?"
You- "Drinks"
this way, she's chasing.
"What does your night look like"
Don't put the question mark. Shows nonchalance
If she says doing nothing, keep that casual vibe going and say
"cool. Let's hang out."
"Where?"
You- "Drinks"
this way, she's chasing.
Not all girls will respond this way.
It won't be always enough.
This is when you start complicating it, adding your jokes and wit.
she says "I'm busy"- Let her go.
she says "I'm tired" - Some more comfort needs to be built- Jokes, Wit.
Be calibrated to the situation; adjust
It won't be always enough.
This is when you start complicating it, adding your jokes and wit.
she says "I'm busy"- Let her go.
she says "I'm tired" - Some more comfort needs to be built- Jokes, Wit.
Be calibrated to the situation; adjust
Remember, there's always a purpose.
Vibing is important, but don't forget to add a Call to Action- Meeting.
If it's a Day 2, continue the vibe with logistics set up in place to sleep with her.
Make her feel the same emotions that she did the last time you guys met
Vibing is important, but don't forget to add a Call to Action- Meeting.
If it's a Day 2, continue the vibe with logistics set up in place to sleep with her.
Make her feel the same emotions that she did the last time you guys met
Bonus Tip to prevent Flaking-
Ex- date at 8pm.
an hour or 2 before the date, text her saying " I'm running late, meet at 8:15"
Does 2 things:
• Reminds her of the date.
• She can tell you if she's not gonna make it- saving you the embarrassment of getting flaked on.
Ex- date at 8pm.
an hour or 2 before the date, text her saying " I'm running late, meet at 8:15"
Does 2 things:
• Reminds her of the date.
• She can tell you if she's not gonna make it- saving you the embarrassment of getting flaked on.
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