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A “Quick” Thread on #SidNaaz X Self Respect X Love. I just need to vent.
Feelings don’t develop overnight. LOVE doesn’t happen overnight. They had a soft corner for eo since the beginning. As they spent more time together, it was unlike anything they had experienced before.
Feelings don’t develop overnight. LOVE doesn’t happen overnight. They had a soft corner for eo since the beginning. As they spent more time together, it was unlike anything they had experienced before.
Who were they to each other? They had never met before BB13, so why the concern. They were contestants right? So, why didn’t they play the game like contestants (the way they did with everyone else)? BECAUSE THE HEART WAS ALREADY IN FOR IT.
When I think of their bond. It’s never of a gf/bf... but rather as partners. As if they’ve gone through it all. They are tight, they are in love, and what they have is beyond any typical relationship or talk of the town in the industry. It’s deeper than all of that.
They fought, but they fought for each other (not the game). They weren’t concerned over the game, they were concerned over eo’s feelings toward themselves.
He didn’t say it, but he HATED it when she wouldn’t speak to him & would go speak to someone else. She was the same way.
He didn’t say it, but he HATED it when she wouldn’t speak to him & would go speak to someone else. She was the same way.
Their love wasn’t one-sided & no one in the world can change my mind on that. What Sana felt could not have been random... you don’t randomly fall in love. You live through moments with someone to fall in love. You feel a deeper connection to fall in love... FROM BOTH SIDES.
It can’t be one-sided. He wanted her head on his arm just as much as she wanted to hug him to sleep. He wanted her to sit with him & talk to him for hours just as much as she wanted his company.
They would hold hands for God knows how long. They would hug eo to sleep. The kind of comfort they shared... I haven’t seen in “just friends” in the history of BB, reel or real life.
Their love can’t be one-sided. The eyes always spoke. The way he’d look at her. They way they would cry for eo. The way they would hug. The way they’d listen to eo. The way they would feel eo’s pain...
I always say this - if Sid felt she was being used & she’d always flip... why didn’t he just let her be? He’s experienced enough. When someone doesn’t listen to solid advice when you’re concerned, you let them be. HE DID NOT JUST LET HER BE. He cared WAY too much.
There was an episode where Sana mentioned that if there was nothing between them, why would she hug him to sleep. He said, “haan toh ek comfort hai”. In that moment, I knew that he was fully aware that it was more than just comfort.
She then asked him what they had going and he said “ek liking hai... on a very good level”. If it wasn’t love, he’d be way more straight forward. but the fact is, HE WAS MADLY IN LOVE - just couldn’t say it then.
Everyone always spoke about Sana’s self respect.. bec either they weren’t watching BB13 or weren’t aware of exactly how invested both Sid & Sana were. Self respect to people is pushing someone away when that person is angry. Call me old school but that’s called being egoistic.
When you care for someone & love them, you don’t just push them away after every little fight. YOU FIGHT THROUGH IT & that is what they did. In any relationship (parents, spouse, siblings, partner, friends), learn to stick through & not give up.
Therefore, the biggest proof of their love is them always getting back after a fight. They’re like two magnets. When you put someone above your ego, above a fight, above whether you’re right/wrong, THAT IS WHEN IT IS LOVE.
During the WKV where Salman said if someone spoke to him the way she was spoken to sometimes, he wouldn’t ever look at the persons face. Sana immediately said “but mere se dekha jata hai”... she stood up for what she felt & what she believed.
Sid wasn’t verbal about his feelings BUT HE HAS SAID HIMSELF, “kyun ke mere bolne ki aadat nahi hai”. He didn’t confess on the show & that makes me happy. Their love is much deeper. He doesn’t have to confess on NTV just because the world expects him to.
They didn’t know eo before entering BB. Through the laughter & triumph... in the end, they were all in... but there are always things to think about. They needed time. He needed time. It makes sense.
Destiny never fails. When it wants to bring two people together, it will. Those feelings they had for each other blossomed even more after BB13, I know it. All the questions that were left answered, were answered. They were WAY too invested to move on.
As fans, we love them. TO DEATH. However, we don’t hold the power to decide who is perfect for whom. but in their case, knowing how they are... hearing it from their close family/friends.... SID & SANA ARE PERFECT FOR EACH OTHER.
Today, I can confidently say they are together and happier than ever.
What makes me believe that even more is that they understand eo like no one else. They have their fair share of friends, etc but the kind of understanding they have is unimaginable. No one understands one better than his/her family & they are now family.
Whatever it is, the fact is, Sid & Sana are never leaving each other’s side. They’ll stick by till the very end. Through thick & thin. Through storm & hail. Believe it or not. Accept it or not. Time will tell. God has his ways.
This is not a different kind of love, people have just forgotten what true love looks like.
Thank you for coming to my Ted Talk. I needed to vent & so I did. Enjoy the gifs, take them if you’d like, khush raho, aur yaad rakho ke SNSHAKH
#SidNaaz
Thank you for coming to my Ted Talk. I needed to vent & so I did. Enjoy the gifs, take them if you’d like, khush raho, aur yaad rakho ke SNSHAKH
#SidNaaz
