This convo on fatphobia ain’t fair, y’all. We not actually mad at Lizzo.

Our critiques are actually, literally abt systemic fatphobia + how we anticipate Lizzo’s actions will be exploited by that system, against us.

Bringing our rage to her door like its for her? VIOLENT. Wild.
YES I am angry, YES I am triggered, yes I am mourning a big bitch *MIGHT* wanna get skinny, bc that’s 1 more battle Fatphobia has won. Another loss to a system that wants me dead.

But Lizzo was never a mule for me to strap my hope to?? She ain’t consent to help me keep my faith!
One part of “celebrity” that is particularly weird is that we assume the shit celebrities show us (or, really, allow us to see) is intentional communication of a thing rather than like... a human existing??? Lmao it’s always been weird to me.
Like, despite Lizzo being fat in a fatphobic world... bc she’s a celeb (also, a BW while moving in celebrity) she has to show us perfect politic, has to display PRISTINELY fat-posi shit or else she’s a traitor to us?

Even as we recognize how hard it is to be fat.. every day?!?
So, not only is Lizzo made a Fat Icon (w/out consenting) she also can at any time be made as a Fat Traitor w/out much effort at all on her part.

How is this not us also creating carcerality around identity + liberatory choreographies, even as we fight to become more fugitive?!??
I think there’s harm, + then there’s what lives in the space btwn our fatigue + the world hates us.

I think the response re: Lizzo’s detox is so great bc the violence upon our bodies is so great... not bc her actions impact our positionality in the world so greatly. It don’t.
It’s triggering bc the world hates us and enacts violent upon us... not in Lizzo’s name, but it surely does weaponize her existence.

But Lizzo didn’t politicize her existence in celebrity. Fatphobia did. Lizzo ain’t make herself a fat activist. Fatphobia mandated it of her.
It’s violent as fuck to say “the world equates all Black fat bodies as monolithic, the world reduces us to caricatures of fatness, and holds me to a standard set by the ONE fat in a room, THEREFOR YOU OWE ME PERFECTION/PERFECT EXECUTION OF BODY POLITIC”.

That’s wiiiiild y’all.
And if you think I’ve got what’s happening down wrong?

Lizzo posted abt a detox bc she fucked up her stomach... and somehow this has become a discussion about whether she’s a traitor to fat folks or not....

Chile cmon. These actions def ain’t earned the response they getting.
I really am seeing a fat bitch trying to figure out the “right” way to be fat, and learning that there is no right way. In real time. She’s trying and failing publicly, which, on top of being fat, is I’m sure a daily navigation of violence.
It’s too hard being Fat in the world, for me to pimp bad on her for a detox. Sure, parts of this are informed by fatphobia (and ableism as I was checked on in an earlier CH discussion) and we can’t critique that. We can critique parts of this, sure. But the whole? Mmm.. nah.
Lol and I’m saying all of this as small fats are now equating larger fat folks to having inherent “health issues” associated with our size Lmao. I need to log off my whole phone.
I’m fucking exhausted + pissed off + hurt bc the world hates Fats AND I’ve watched fat folks ignore proximate privilege + weaponize their fatness/ light skin/ etc against the more fugitive Fat Black folks asking all yall to be more imaginative about liberating our fat selves.
So I aint realize that white fats were mad at Lizzo, bc I don’t think much about white fat ppl. The same way white fat folks dont think abt us... til they need a mule.

It should surprise no one that white people are projecting themselves on the body of a BW. It’s giving Get Out.
Also my birthday is Wednesday and I can’t get into my Bday bag bc y’all are violent as fuck online.

My niggas are reminding me about the mandate: no free labor in my (now) late twenties.

This thread + literally FOUR hrs on Clubhouse. So gone head: https://cash.app/$delightfulAL 
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