June 23, 2019.

This was the first picture that the world ever saw of me as my authentic self.

It took me over 3 months of being on HRT to gain the courage to even do so.

I didn’t come out to my job until December 26th, over 6 months later.

Everybody’s story is different.
August 27th, 2019.

Those eyebrows! 👀 Oh, what they started as. But that shirt... that was my first women’s racer back tank top that I wore, as me, for the first time.

It’s not instant, transition. In fact, it’s painfully slow.

But any step forward is a step forward.
October 6, 2019.

This one. See, this one right here.

This one is me, looking into my phone and seeing the first glimmer of ‘her’ looking back.

Still one of my favorite moments. 💜
October 20, 2019.

I think this pic made me legit bawl my eyes out. I must’ve stared at this picture in bed for what has to have been a half an hour. And the tank top was my girlfriends.

I’m pretty sure this was the point I got to when I realized I could really feel “ok”.
November 19, 2019.

Taken in the bathroom of my work.

I think this was the point when I realized I had to tell my job. Wearing a jacket around the office every day wasn’t going to be sustainable.

I’m so glad it wasn’t.
Nearly a year ago today.

It truly is crazy to look back at these and remember exactly how I felt when I took them, wondering what the next week or month had in store for me.

I’m still wondering that today, in every good way.
There isn’t a timetable for embracing who you are. And there isn’t a cutoff or some magical age where it ‘won’t work’.

It’ll be hard. It’ll be emotional. And there might even be times when you’re so scared, you’ll try to talk yourself out of it.

Don’t.

Be yourself. Always.
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