One time a white cosplayer DMed me to play devil's advocate & tell me that a situation that I publicly called out racist wasn't actually racist.

Anyways it ended with her crying when I said the word racist & people being mad at me for making her cry because she's "sensitive".

None of the white women wanted to hear my side or even see the full conversation. They immediately unfollowed me and never talked to me again. Which is part of why now I'm very cautious about being friends with any white women.

I got bullied for months over that whole situation cause all that people needed to hear was that I hurt her feelings. And that was enough of a reason for people to harass and attack me. All because I hurt a white women's feelings.

So if I'm ever super cautious or have my walls up especially around white women. It's to protect myself because I used to be attacked a lot by strangers all because I hurt white women's feelings. It's so scary the power they wield against black women especially.

The sad part was that during this whole situation. No one cares about how I felt. Yet people defended the white women as sensitive and fragile. While it was okay to harm me. This is one of the many ways racism happens in real life. Why is it okay to attack me?