some girls are very cute, like on purpose like they worked at it, & very autistic

being cute can be hard or easy but it has this advantage over other social skills: you mostly work on it outside of social interactions, you dont have to take social feedback & process it immediately in the moment, you just work on exercise/style/beauty skills alone

one thing about cute autistic girls is that many of them take the girl-competition habitually when around other women, as a preemptive defense

they do this bc they can't tell if the other party is initiating girl competition so to them being hit w it is always unexpected

its easy to resent cute autistic girls bc they do have the big social advantage of being cute, & like i said many of them habitually engage in girl competition so no one else can unexpectedly strike first & that behavior is very fucking annoying

& w all those bonus social points and aggressive girl competing, they still often want reassurance & special treatment??? like dude

however from their pov they are legitimately very unsure what is going on

not sure what to recommend here, this is a situation that can put people on their worst behavior