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I get really annoyed with the idea that autistic individuals, or introverts in general, have to change their behaviour to suit neurotypical (NT) extroverts. I'm truly sorry for all those struggling this Christmas and sending so much support, but for me it is a kind of blessing 1/
For the first time in years I don't have to have an anxiety attack about going to the semi-compulsory office Christmas party. I don't have to worry about the whole period being a hellish experience of noise and lights while trying to mask so others don't feel uncomfortable. 2/
I'm not trying to be nasty here. I fully understand that for many people this is a hard time of year even in normal times, and this year will be worse. I'm just feeling a bit of relief that this year I can hopefully have Christmas which doesn't leave me drained for weeks. 3/
It's not just Christmas. It's just that it tends to be the worst time for being made to feel like you have to be NT and outgoing. People seem to want you to "put being autistic on hold" for the holidays. You're expected to join in, even by people who know you are autistic. 4/
It happens all the time though. People who say things like "you'll enjoy it when you do it". No I really won't. Being forced to socialise isn't going to suddenly make me feel less drained by it. 5/
Again, I can't stress enough that I am not saying this to make people feel bad. It's just I'm seeing a lot of comments telling those who are looking forward to a quiet Christmas to shut up, from people who complain we aren't "getting into the spirit of it" every other year. 6/
