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A random late night thing but at every level of achievement in career, beauty, and life in general every person of every intersection will probably experience some form of severe rejection (mostly out the opposing person’s insecurities) but guess what... it doesn’t matter.
This is gonna sound mean but during my weightloss ive really focused on how I am dealing with past rejections that I didn’t realize were ppl rejecting me & current ones similar that I may run into- and I’m like wow look at them now. They were really some trash. Still trash.
But their approval at the time meant a heavy amount to me bc I love them or spent time with them. Now I look back like ..why? And all I can come up with is “at the time it mattered & they knew” which they did know that it matters so much which is why they undercut me so often
And I used to be like “my god wow these ppl are all so great. I would love to be the greatest love to all of these ppl” ...and I was. Lol that’s why rejecting me or undercutting me was so important to them. But I didn’t see bc I was looking for their approval & didn’t see myself
I think many ppl who talk on here about ‘narcissists’ or being ignored are experiencing the same thing. They don’t know it bc they are yearning for the other persons love or approval so badly bc that person is (purposely) rejecting them & they are obsessed with the pain of that
But honestly like... get over it. Lol that person doesn’t matter past what you’re making of them . And usually your undying love or support is the only thing that gives them a semblance of importance. Remove yourself or take off the beer googles & be free to do you.
Also, it does not matter how thick you are, how skinny you are, how light skin you are, surgery or whatever- those ppl surrounding you will find a way to undercut you to compare you to something that will be higher or different.Because it’s more of a control thing than it is real
There are men dating your favorite celebrities & hot girls from IG who are still looking them right in their face with all of their fame and beauty that you worship and telling him that they are not as pretty as the next woman.
So please do not become obsessed with these things freeing you from rejection, which is what I think people have become obsessed with. Rejection is OK & more ppl use it to control you than you even know. Forget their existence forreal.
