To my dear sisters in Islam, this thread is for you :) Hope you'll feel better after reading it, In Sha Allah
Khadeejah radiya Allahu anha married the Prophet pbuh at 40 years old and Allah decree on her to have six children with him...
Ayesha radiya Allahu anha got married at 6 but Allah didn't decree on her to have children...
Maryam radiya Allahu anha never got married and she was the best of the women of the world...
Asiya radiya Allahu anha was the wife of the worst man that ever existed...
Khawla radiya Allahu anha was one of the greatest sahabiya and warrior of Islam but she never got married...
All these wome had a different fate Allah wrote for them, all these women were special and honorable and loved by billions of Muslims today and mentioned all the time.
So my dear sisters, no matter how old you are or where you come from... Tell me did the fact that Maryam as never got married degraded her?
Did the fact that Ayesha ra never had children degraded her?
Did the fact that Khadeejah ra got married at 40 and was older than the Prophet pbuh degraded her?
Did the fact that Asiya ra was married to tyrant hated by everyone degraded her?
No! All these women gained the highest status by their faith and their actions.. so no matter what you're going through, why you worry about what will people say or think of you?
You aren't married yet? You don't have children yet? So what? That's between the hands of Allah and not yours or anyone's! *Why giving so much importance to the words of the creation who have nothing but their tongues while Allah wrote your destiny way before you existed..
Your job is to worship Allah and live as His servant. You are a woman, a heart, a soul that is here to work for her akhirah and not just a face or a body or an age number!
You are an internal soul that will return to her creator so no matter how your life is right now, never forget that this life is a test and we can never have everything that we want in this world!
No one have it all trust me! Each human being pass by a test whether it's marriage or children or job or poverty or any other trial so don't focus on the talk of people and focus on being a better Muslimah and your shining time will come.