tw // dec 18
things on what to do on dec 18; a thread :D
things on what to do on dec 18; a thread :D
dont post funeral clips or funeral pictures, those are extremely triggering to shawols (including myself)
dont put a tw on j0nghyun name (eg: tw // j0nghyun) that makes it seem like he himself is a trigger when hes not, instead put tw // dec 18 when talking about something that could be taken as triggering
be sensitive towards shawols, some people still havent gotten over his death and are extremely sensitive over it, if your shawol moots are inactive dont spam them and understand that they dont want to be active on that day.
dont call anyone “dramatic” for still being sad over him, this was an extremely upsetting event for people as he was considered a safe space; dont take that away from people
dont invalidate babywols feelings. for the older shawols; i understand how you are feeling about this, but dont be insensitive by saying shit abt how babywols cant miss him or how they dont go through the same pain, he is a safe space for all of his fans.
this is it for now if i can think of anything ill add it later :)
dont remember him as the idol who passed away, j0nghyun is an extremely talented member of shinee, he shouldnt be only remembered for that
i probably should of added this earlier in the thread (sorry) but december 18 is the date j0nghyun from shin33 passed away, and the reason putting a 0 in his name (j0nghyun) is because i didnt want to mess with his searches :)