Working with sex workers can be therapeutic! Most of us, however, are not therapists & our work should not be considered the same.

We can help you work through some shit, even the heavy stuff, but for your sake & ours, we need to stay w/in our own boundaries & scope of practice.

If I don't stay in my lane & know when to set limits, I can do more harm than good, even with the best intentions, so respect boundaries that are set.

Good dommes keep your wellbeing as priority, & many times that means saying "no" to something we aren't equipped to handle.

This includes saying "no" to things that perpetuate harmful or bigoted mindsets. If you want to work through these things, seek a qualified therapist, not a sex worker who has a (still skilled but) *very different* skillset than a trained mental health professional.