If you’re anything like me, when you find yourself hurt or confused in a connection, you begin to embrace your masculine energy as a means of protection. You may allow your masculine energy to really take over and you begin to do things to make it seem like you care less than

you actually do, or you act with less compassion in certain scenarios. When you act with less compassion in certain scenarios but it’s going against the urge of what you’d really like to do- this cripples your feminine energy. It’s super important that you find a balance between

the two. Don’t allow yourself to fall into toxic masculine habits because of confusion or pain. Your divine feminine energy will help you through the hurt and confusion. When you don’t allow that side of you to do it’s part, she begins to retreat. If you’re anything like me this

may result in your being a little rougher around the edges than you usually are. Allow your divine feminine energy to soothe your pain and worries when you’re really going through it. When you’re confused allow your intuition to guide you. Not your outer world. If you act with

love and compassion in a scenario if it’s how you genuinely feel, and you feel guided do it- go for it! If the person does not embrace it in the way you’d like- it has nothing to do with you! Remember this. I’ve caught myself behaving in this manner in the past few days and

found myself feeling really emotionally unbalanced. I didn’t realize in the moment but I had multiple dreams in the last few days that showed me where my unbalanced energy lies.

Here is a chart that can help you decipher from which wounded energy you are acting from during times of pain and confusion.