I see there are some things happening on the TL.
I’m a little disappointed in some of you, so it’s story time. This is really for us Gen X and up folks. Youngins should read it, but my message is for anyone who grew up before everything we did was on the internet/1

I’ve told y’all before, I’m old. In my 40s. I personally have seen mass changes in how we, as a society, approach sexual assault and harassment, power differentials, and gender relations.
I’ve had a number of convos w military/DoD guys my age or older where we realize /2
I’ve had a number of convos w military/DoD guys my age or older where we realize /2
Stuff that used to fly when we were younger is NOT ok. It was NEVER okay. But we were all conditioned by society to accept it.
I think back to incidents like the Monica Lewinsky scandal. We all bashed 24 yo woman instead of holding the most powerful man in the world... /3
I think back to incidents like the Monica Lewinsky scandal. We all bashed 24 yo woman instead of holding the most powerful man in the world... /3
Responsible for his own actions.
Monica’s not much older than I. What happened to her—and so many other people, mostly women—as I grew up sent VERY LOUD AND CLEAR messages about gender relations, power, and who will be blamed if things go south.
Men my age also/4
Monica’s not much older than I. What happened to her—and so many other people, mostly women—as I grew up sent VERY LOUD AND CLEAR messages about gender relations, power, and who will be blamed if things go south.
Men my age also/4
Grew up in that toxic milieu that we are all *constantly* unlearning if—and only if— we are open and putting in the effort.
So I ask of you, the plus-40 crowd:
Realize how things have changed. It’s okay to realize you handled things poorly in the past. But it’s/5
So I ask of you, the plus-40 crowd:
Realize how things have changed. It’s okay to realize you handled things poorly in the past. But it’s/5
On US to take responsibility and change the future trajectory.
We are the leaders now. We are the supposedly older and wiser folks.
Are we going to rise to the occasion? /fin
We are the leaders now. We are the supposedly older and wiser folks.
Are we going to rise to the occasion? /fin