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Okay I saw this tweet and holy shit I can't believe I haven't seen more people talking about this, I probably just haven't been paying attention but. I googled "sex therapy tips" and it's... Concerning https://twitter.com/char93820720/status/1336737251808653312
The majority seem to present "scheduled sex" as one of the best solutions and ofc that makes me sick. Don't want to fuck your husband? Make a schedule where there's a certain day that you agree to do it anyway!
On every single one of the articles I've read they have this weird transactional shit. Massage is always mentioned. Sex therapists are rly out here teaching couples that the end goal of a backrub is intercourse
This advice is literally just telling women to dissociate and think of something more pleasant than what's happening during sex w their partner.
Can't reach orgasm? Its probably your fault and you need to work on yourself uwu
Seeing a lot of "buy some lubricant!" too and it's sad bc I bet a lot of women are just not sufficiently aroused, so penetration obviously causes pain bc of that, and therapists just straight up tell them to use lube. Make it fit. I wanna throw up
Also seen some, not a lot but some, that suggest consuming porn- either together with your partner, or suggesting that the person with the higher sex drive use it to "supplement" things 
I saw a sex therapist's tik tok where she suggested that if you have a higher libido than your partner, you can ask them if they would be open to sitting next to you while you masturbate. Worms on the brain imho
And ofc seeing a ton of "spice things up! try something new and kinky!!" Medical professionals are really out here saying giving bdsm a chance and being open to whatever fucked up fetishes ur partner might have is gonna fix your lack of desire to have sex w him
Seems like sex therapists are almost wholly focused on fixing the "problem" of women's low sex drives and it makes me really sick. The only time that it talks about men losing interest in sex w their partner it's bc of porn addiction.
