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Wow, I really woke up to a mess today on my TL. I have a few things to say about everything. Some of you are steady in your trust of our boys, which I love. Others are my beautiful little goldfish, forgetting the past things that have been revealed. It’s okay to need reminders+
sometimes. I’m here to remind you today.
As most of us know, something M said today is causing a bit of a stir. Before I delve into everything I have to say, let’s break the lines down to get a closer look. Of course, the only one who knows 100% for sure what M means is M+
As most of us know, something M said today is causing a bit of a stir. Before I delve into everything I have to say, let’s break the lines down to get a closer look. Of course, the only one who knows 100% for sure what M means is M+
himself. But I do feel that I have a pretty likely interpretation.
“It's a good thing sometimes cuz many answers and questions are able to create risks to future works and to any relationship.”+ https://twitter.com/net_drifter/status/1336612716493017094?s=20
“It's a good thing sometimes cuz many answers and questions are able to create risks to future works and to any relationship.”+ https://twitter.com/net_drifter/status/1336612716493017094?s=20
To me, that means if he were to answer too directly it could affect their future in the entertainment industry. Thailand still has many issues with homophobia. They can’t just be blurting anything they want out, they must be careful and deliberate. There’s a reason they have+
their safety net of PhiNong/single. He specifically said answers AND questions. People who ask them if they’re dating directly etc can put their future work relations at risk if they aren’t ready to be more open.
It can also cause drama for working if ghost shipping come into+
It can also cause drama for working if ghost shipping come into+
play. I believe part of what M means is that every word he says is evaluated in the scope of their relationship. Just like if M touches someone casually or says something about a colleague, it’s immediately thrown into the spotlight and analyzed. Same with G. They realize that+
what they say has consequences, both good and bad.
“I understand that the fans like to ship a lot. Some stories are true, some are false. Sometimes, they would mostly think toward the shipping and it's hard to answer the questions. Sometimes, if I answered very+
“I understand that the fans like to ship a lot. Some stories are true, some are false. Sometimes, they would mostly think toward the shipping and it's hard to answer the questions. Sometimes, if I answered very+
straight forward, it could destroy the fans' imagination. Or if I answered indirectly, they could overthink it even more. So, I sometimes have to avoid answering some questions. Having consciousness is a must.”
I believe some people are running with this for the exact opposite+
I believe some people are running with this for the exact opposite+
narrative as he meant it. TSS are saying they’re just a ship. But look at it closer. M is smart, he knows that many people are here to ship. It’s a common thing in the BL industry. Not everyone is like many of us, true supporters. Many love the mystery, and even the delusion+
that their idols may date them someday and that they’re not actually in love. M is a realist in many ways. G knows these facts too. Do you remember when G was asked about the dowry and proposal? He said to wait and see, if he said yes immediately that fans won’t be excited+
anymore.
Why do you think that many official companies that manage BL talent and shows themselves hire predominately straight men? It’s because they want the shippers to enjoy shipping but also feel like they have a chance with the idols. Granted, regardless of their sexual+
Why do you think that many official companies that manage BL talent and shows themselves hire predominately straight men? It’s because they want the shippers to enjoy shipping but also feel like they have a chance with the idols. Granted, regardless of their sexual+
identity, the chance is slim to none that fans will get to date or marry their idols. But that’s the thing about entertainment that targets a certain demographic. Just like in my own country each generation seems to have their own boy bands become popular, their marketability is+
often based on fantasy. Fans’ fantasies. This is no different.
We may not agree with it, but as a public figure selling their image to the public, they are well aware of the different kinds of fans that they have. As nice as it would be to have 100% loyal supporters who are+
We may not agree with it, but as a public figure selling their image to the public, they are well aware of the different kinds of fans that they have. As nice as it would be to have 100% loyal supporters who are+
there through thick and thin, Mew is smart enough to know that it isn’t all like that.
That’s what I feel is meant by destroying fans' imagination. In regard to him saying answering indirectly could lead people to overthink more, I believe it has to do with all the theories+
That’s what I feel is meant by destroying fans' imagination. In regard to him saying answering indirectly could lead people to overthink more, I believe it has to do with all the theories+
about stuff like limping, dressing room excursions, couple items or shared wardrobe, etc. For example, maybe something is just a fan gift. Or they literally just happened to wear something similar. Or perhaps when fans think they stayed somewhere together they didn’t actually.+
Or how we imagine the boys are jealous of certain people who may actually be their friends. But none of that means those things are false completely. If something isn't exactly right, it doesn't negate their entire relationship. We do tend to let our imaginations go wild, and I+
think M knows that.
I think M knows that sometimes the best answer is not to answer at all, because if he confirms too much it could affect their future jobs, their popularity, and work relations. But if he answers too vaguely it can lead to overthinking and even bad behavior+
I think M knows that sometimes the best answer is not to answer at all, because if he confirms too much it could affect their future jobs, their popularity, and work relations. But if he answers too vaguely it can lead to overthinking and even bad behavior+
towards their friends or colleagues, or inappropriate posts about very specific parts of their personal lives. NY is another real celebrity couple that has had to give answers very similar to this one that M gave because it's important to establish boundaries. They're real but+
they aren't just there for fans' imaginations or to force relationship standards onto them.
Fans often build them up on this pedestal of what their relationship should be or look like. But at the end of the day, they are just two normal human beings in a very human+
Fans often build them up on this pedestal of what their relationship should be or look like. But at the end of the day, they are just two normal human beings in a very human+
relationship. Sure, what they have is special, but it’s private. We are more than welcome to speculate and discuss on our timeline, but we should still maintain respect. We shouldn’t push them to share things they aren’t ready to share or try to ask inappropriate questions of+
them. Let them reveal to us in their own time. They already have been. Loud and clear, in fact. Let’s not forget everything that’s come before this. They already stated what they share is real. They don’t do fanservice. And they wouldn’t fake a relationship for fame.
I could+
I could+
go over everything that’s proved their relationship already but that’d take a long time. All I have to say is that if you trust them, keep trusting them. And if you don’t, I hope you can evaluate why you’re supporting them. Are you here to actually support them as people and the+
relationships they hold? Or are you here to pick apart everything they say? These two boys are in love, but only they know the exact scope of their relationship. As M once said, love is just between two people. And as G sang, we don’t have to know their relationship.+
Actions speak louder than words. Period.
Lastly, you may not have noticed, but the Thai side of the fandom is calm. Why? Because they know. Thailand knows. They don’t twist M’s or G’s words. They understand and support them. They didn’t forget everything that came before this.+
Lastly, you may not have noticed, but the Thai side of the fandom is calm. Why? Because they know. Thailand knows. They don’t twist M’s or G’s words. They understand and support them. They didn’t forget everything that came before this.+
They also take some time to think and understand the statements instead of jumping to conclusions.
Here is a good example, a straightforward statement from our Thai friend.+ https://twitter.com/EverlastingMG/status/1336669607411769344?s=20
Here is a good example, a straightforward statement from our Thai friend.+ https://twitter.com/EverlastingMG/status/1336669607411769344?s=20
So at the end of the day, please try to think things through carefully and don’t panic when you read something. Address it in context and try to seek out more information first. Even check what Thai fans think about it. We are living through translations, from a distance.+
We have to reframe our thinking with Thai culture and not force our own culture onto them. Slow down and wait. Trust our boys.
To tie it up, let’s enjoy this cute little slip from G about his faen during an overheard conversation. https://twitter.com/net_drifter/status/1336636291811782657?s=20
To tie it up, let’s enjoy this cute little slip from G about his faen during an overheard conversation. https://twitter.com/net_drifter/status/1336636291811782657?s=20
Thanks for coming to my TED talk, now stop worrying and get good rest. Our boys are in love and all we have to do is sit back and wait for them to reveal in their own ways and their own time. It won’t be long, I can feel it. We’re already living it.+
This thread isn't for toxic fans. They will continue believing what they want. Let them. Block or report them if they're TSS. This thread is for those with a weak or wavering heart. Keep trusting. Time will tell.
Let’s all stay together for a long time. ♡
Let’s all stay together for a long time. ♡
