Sometimes, when you feel people are coming after you because of financial benefits, don't be mad at them cause that's the only thing you've shown them you can offer. You've shown them you can't offer them your time, your love, your advice, your care, your wisdom and probably

peace of mind so it's not their fault that they come after you because of the only thing they have seen you offer "money."

Same way men know women that have nothing to offer except their bodies is the same way people generally know what you can and can't offer them as a person.

So stop being mad. If you want them to stop coming after you cause of financial benefits alone, show them you can bring other things to the table too. The problem is you, not them.