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Masculine people, I have a question that I know will piss our counterparts off and start mess via Twitter, but I have to ask because I wonder if anyone else ever was gulity of this...
You know how often I've been told that I wasn't listening to a woman. It wasn't until now I understood exactly how I wasn't listening. But I want to touch on that I wasn't deliberately ignoring the women I involved myself with I just didn't have the tools I needed to understand
Think about how often you've said "so what do you want from me"
"Tell me what you want me to do"
It's like you want to be instructed or a pull of desperation to get the other party to calm down and fix the situation instantly.
"Tell me what you want me to do"
It's like you want to be instructed or a pull of desperation to get the other party to calm down and fix the situation instantly.
But honestly if you were listening to what she was saying when she went on that long emotional monologue instead of wondering:
"why is this person so worked up" "How did we get here" "I am so confused" "where is this coming from"
"why is this person so worked up" "How did we get here" "I am so confused" "where is this coming from"
I sit with the last constructive criticism I've ever gotten before my current relationship now "You have too much baggage" and I didn't understand how at first.
Until I actually understood what emotional intelligence actually is and let me tell you fuckers something. It ain't what we be thinking it is on social media, it's more intricate and delicate. It takes consistent practice in person and not a couple tweets re regurgitate to get it
Now that I've gotten through the background thoughts to my question, How often have you ignored what a woman was saying to you whether deliberately or not ?
