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I was dating this guy who always beat me at every chance he got, my family knew but since he was paying some of our bills, my mum will say “Don’t worry, it will get better”
but it didn’t, He is in jail now btw,
Even his own mum warned me one day that her son is violent
but it didn’t, He is in jail now btw,
Even his own mum warned me one day that her son is violent
He has been in several relationships and they all kept leaving him, but in her warning, she somehow begged me to please stay with him and “change” him.
“He really loves you so much, he just has a temper issue, I’m sure you can change him”
So I stayed
“He really loves you so much, he just has a temper issue, I’m sure you can change him”
So I stayed
The first day I noticed his violence was the day he came to visit me in school and we had a little issue, man lifted my laptop and smashed it on the ground cos he was shouting at me and I had an assignment I needed to complete, so I was on my system and wasn’t responding.
He smashed the system and kept shouting and calling me names. “Slut, idiot, ingrate, fvck you!, when I talk, you listen!
Omo, my neighbors had to come start knocking on my door cos that was a first.
But as the days go by, even my neighbors got used to it.
Omo, my neighbors had to come start knocking on my door cos that was a first.
But as the days go by, even my neighbors got used to it.
He will beat me and then come back with gifts, he smashed the system and got me a better one. That’s how he actually was.
People who weren’t close thought I was enjoying but man, I was dying, slowly yet silently.
People who weren’t close thought I was enjoying but man, I was dying, slowly yet silently.
From inside the house, it moved outside, on dates, at events, with friends, just anywhere! He will shout at me and speak to me with so much disrespect.
Well, I left him when I couldn’t take it anymore but another girl sha married him, and I guess she was hoping to change him
Well, I left him when I couldn’t take it anymore but another girl sha married him, and I guess she was hoping to change him
according to the story, He beat her one day and she had internal injuries which escalated.
She died and her siblings took the case up and the husband was arrested and jailed and might be out soon and well, she is dead and gone.
She died and her siblings took the case up and the husband was arrested and jailed and might be out soon and well, she is dead and gone.
Dear Ladies, You are not a life changer! YOU CANNOT CHANGE HIM!! RUN!
And It’s never too late to quit that relationship or marriage. Instead of staying in an abusive marriage for your kids, stay alive for them! and forget what people will say, they are not suffering with you!
And It’s never too late to quit that relationship or marriage. Instead of staying in an abusive marriage for your kids, stay alive for them! and forget what people will say, they are not suffering with you!
Again, RUN!
DON’T STAY IN AN ABUSIVE MARRIAGE FOR YOUR KIDS, STAY ALIVE FOR THEM!!
RT to create awareness
DON’T STAY IN AN ABUSIVE MARRIAGE FOR YOUR KIDS, STAY ALIVE FOR THEM!!
RT to create awareness
