Literally just read someone say that it's "split down the middle" on people who prefer to be called "differently-abled" vs. "Disabled".

I know there are a very few who prefer the former but. It is not split down the middle.

So many people like "Well we don't know what to call you because the language keeps changing!"

Yes that's what language does.

Sorry you don't get to learn one term and then stick with it for fifty years and never have to check in again to see if things have changed.

Personally PFL bugs the crap out of me for a lot of reasons but at least the word "disability" is there.