When you're out approaching women (and in social situations in general), you don't want to overthink. It's not the time to think about how your hair looks, or whether you're in the best shape possible. Rather, you want to enjoy the moment, have fun and put your best foot forward
Women will feel that energy and it will transfer to them, which will make your approaches become more enjoyable and lead to better results. If your energy shows self-doubt and insecurities, it will show via your vibe, and it could turn an otherwise solid interaction into dead end
When you get home, you should break out your journal and write down what you could improve. Was your eye contact weak? Write it down. Was your voice too low and you sounded scared? Write it down. Did you feel out of shape talking to the gym bunny? Write it down, then hit the gym
In the words of Seneca "Be tolerant with others but strict with yourself" Changing that to approaching and social situations "Be tolerant when in the field but strict when you're by yourself" Put your best food forward when approaching, then analyze and improve when you get home
I didn't write this just for you guys either - yesterday, I should have approached at the grocery store, I had done a set and it went good. However, I was too much in my head and overanalyzing rather than just taking action and analyzing after the set, and the set was gone
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