How to be happy for others when things are not working out for you
A thread for situations like
- Your friend/ex is getting married when you've just broken up or are single
- Someone bought a new house & you just got laid off
- You failed an exam but your friend topped
A thread for situations like
- Your friend/ex is getting married when you've just broken up or are single
- Someone bought a new house & you just got laid off
- You failed an exam but your friend topped
If you've lost someone or failed at a venture, it's bound to #hurt.
But you've to internalize the fact that your #journey is your own, it's the cycle of your #Karma and can't be compared with anyone else.
But you've to internalize the fact that your #journey is your own, it's the cycle of your #Karma and can't be compared with anyone else.
If we focus on other people and feel insecure or jealous, we will achieve less than our capacity.
To deal with the feelings of jealousy we need to
1. Practise Gratitude and be thankful for what we do have. We all can find something to be thankful for even in the worst situations
To deal with the feelings of jealousy we need to
1. Practise Gratitude and be thankful for what we do have. We all can find something to be thankful for even in the worst situations
2. Zoom out. Realise that your journey is your own and you're not competing with someone else.
3. Smile and compliment the achiever, send positive thoughts their way. What you send to the universe comes back to you. Pray for their happy life.
3. Smile and compliment the achiever, send positive thoughts their way. What you send to the universe comes back to you. Pray for their happy life.
4.Forgive them if they'd wronged u earlier, they were immature & perhaps didn't mean 2 hurt u.They could b feelin insecure of u at that point & ended up hurting u.Let it go.
5.Understand where ur unhappiness is coming from, it could b cuz you're not taking right action in ur life
5.Understand where ur unhappiness is coming from, it could b cuz you're not taking right action in ur life