ive seen a lot of neopronoun/xenogender hate on tiktok so i just wanna say now: ALL neopronouns are valid.
heres a thread where i debunk common arguments i see:
heres a thread where i debunk common arguments i see:
“but someone used acabself/blmself!!!!”
that was a troll trying to make neopronouns look bad. nobody who actually uses neopronouns use those.
that was a troll trying to make neopronouns look bad. nobody who actually uses neopronouns use those.
“im neurodivergent and i dont use/support neopronouns!”
cool? people experience neurodivergency differently. just because you dont understand someones identity doesnt give you the right to invalidate someone elses relationship with gender.
cool? people experience neurodivergency differently. just because you dont understand someones identity doesnt give you the right to invalidate someone elses relationship with gender.
“im trans and i dont use/support neopronouns!”
see above. people experience gender differently. that gives you no right to invalidate someone else in a community they were told they would be loved and accepted in.
see above. people experience gender differently. that gives you no right to invalidate someone else in a community they were told they would be loved and accepted in.
“neopronouns/xenogenders make the trans community look like a joke!”
transphobes are going to be transphobic regardless of neopronouns. it isnt trans peoples job to be “acceptable” to cis people, and it never will be.
transphobes are going to be transphobic regardless of neopronouns. it isnt trans peoples job to be “acceptable” to cis people, and it never will be.
“i dont feel comfortable using neoprns that relate to kinks.”
nobody is asking that of you. i have not seen a SINGLE “daddyself” or “masterself”. “kitten” isn’t an inherently sexual word just because neckbeards on discord said so- its on the same level as “honey” or “baby”.(1/2)
nobody is asking that of you. i have not seen a SINGLE “daddyself” or “masterself”. “kitten” isn’t an inherently sexual word just because neckbeards on discord said so- its on the same level as “honey” or “baby”.(1/2)
and even if those words still make you uncomfortable because society makes everything unnecessarily sexual- most people who use neoprns use other sets of prns! they/them and its/it are also common. you can just use those and still respect their identity regardless. (2/2)
“i respect trans people but i dont support neopronouns! im not transphobic!”
yeah you are. cis people have no right to talk about trans issues.
yeah you are. cis people have no right to talk about trans issues.
thats all the common arguments i can think of but if i see any more ill add them !! remember ur loved and valid ilysm ♡︎