I forgot about this, but it's a CLASSIC aspect of narcissistic abuse: the never-ending lawsuit.
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My mom sued my dad so many times--over the cars, the alimony, the house, the student loans, the fact that the mistress was IN the house, the contents of a storage shed...
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My mom sued my dad so many times--over the cars, the alimony, the house, the student loans, the fact that the mistress was IN the house, the contents of a storage shed...
...the retirement accounts, and because, in her mind, the divorce papers had been signed too quickly.
When she found articles that I'd written later on, that spoke unfavorably of my childhood, she threatened to sue the magazine. They took them down. (Wonder why I'm anon?)
When she found articles that I'd written later on, that spoke unfavorably of my childhood, she threatened to sue the magazine. They took them down. (Wonder why I'm anon?)
When her mother passed away, she threatened to sue her brother for improper use of the estate, after finding out that there was no inheritance. He'd sold assets to care for their mom, & cover his own expenses when he could work--due to caring for his mom.
I mean, God forbid.
I mean, God forbid.

She is RELENTLESS & ruthless for the sole purpose of getting what she wants. She doesn't care who she hurts to get there, & in her mind, the legal system is a tool to remedy that.
Narcissistic spouses (statistically, more likely to be men) do this to single moms, threatening to
Narcissistic spouses (statistically, more likely to be men) do this to single moms, threatening to
...take custody of children, leave ex-spouses homeless, take cars or alimony, as tools to manipulate their ex into compliance. I remember reading a horrible story on the @NoQuivering site, abt a former SGM (?) patriarch who flooded his impoverished ex w/lawsuits, bc she refused
...to live in a "Biblical" sister-wife situation--which is a fancy way of saying he'd been cheating on her for years, got the new lady to agree to polygamy, & tried to retroactively force it on the wife. She took all her marital lingerie outside and set it on fire. Good for her.
The point is that, we all know we're seeing narcissistic abuse on a much larger scale w/45. He's using the legal system as his own personal cookie jar, funded by the US taxpayer. Judges have to take a page out of the "Splitting" playbook, & start refusing frivolous lawsuits. /end