1. Even queer community is toxic sometimes. Call that out, too.
2. Coming out is a lifelong project. Get used to it.
3. Hormonal transition takes a long time. Impatience & expectation will just make you more miserable.
4. Trans is not less than cis. Gay is not less than straight.
2. Coming out is a lifelong project. Get used to it.
3. Hormonal transition takes a long time. Impatience & expectation will just make you more miserable.
4. Trans is not less than cis. Gay is not less than straight.
5. You only get one body to live in. It’s okay to want to change it, but you still have to live in it in the meantime. Learn to love it.
6. Lots of us have been hurt & are hurting. You can act out of your own hurt, or you can act to heal the hurt of others.
7. You are worthy.
6. Lots of us have been hurt & are hurting. You can act out of your own hurt, or you can act to heal the hurt of others.
7. You are worthy.
8. Share what you know generously. Don’t make those who come after you pay the same dues that you had to.
9. There is so much more to all of us than our appearance.
10. Being a cis-passing trans person comes with its own set of pains.
11. You’re going to change. A lot.
9. There is so much more to all of us than our appearance.
10. Being a cis-passing trans person comes with its own set of pains.
11. You’re going to change. A lot.
12. It’s okay to not know who you want to be yet. Just start.
13. You are loveable, & there is someone(s) who thinks you’re just the coolest.
14. The world doesn’t force you into nihilism & negativity. You get to choose.
15. Everyone is not thinking about or looking at you.
13. You are loveable, & there is someone(s) who thinks you’re just the coolest.
14. The world doesn’t force you into nihilism & negativity. You get to choose.
15. Everyone is not thinking about or looking at you.
16. Do what makes you happy now, because you are going to die.
17. If everything seems like it ought to be great but you are still miserable & hopeless, what have you got to lose by trying to connect to something spiritual?
18. Comparison will crush you. Boost people you admire.
17. If everything seems like it ought to be great but you are still miserable & hopeless, what have you got to lose by trying to connect to something spiritual?
18. Comparison will crush you. Boost people you admire.
19. Other people’s successes are not your failures.
20. The best stuff is on the other side of your fear.







20. The best stuff is on the other side of your fear.







