A pretty Beta is still a Beta.

A man's sexual-market value (SMV) is more nuanced than just being genetically pretty.

A man's SMV is defined by the level of RESPECT he earns from other men.

Male respect is the ultimate measure of a man's SMV. It's the coin of the realm.
Look at what men respect in other men:

- Physical symmetry -- attractiveness
- Physical health & strength
- Mental health & strength
- High performance
- Confidence
- Courage
- Integrity

ALL of these are elements of a man's SMV.

Because men value them, women value them.
Women will eventually dismiss a man who gets no respect from other men, even if that man has favorable physical traits.

A pretty Beta is still a Beta.

Ultimately, MEN measure and define the SMV of other men, NOT women. Women only recognize a man's SMV.
MALE respect is the most accurate assessment of a man's SMV.

Women are good at quickly assessing the PHYSICAL components of a man's SMV.

However, she watches the level of respect any given man gets from other men in order to see what that man's SMV really is.
Women sexually value men who display the same traits that are respected by other men.

Thus, it's MEN, not women, that are the advanced, "professional" SMV assessors of men.

The respect men have for any given man, ultimately defines that man's SMV.
MEN, not women, ultimately are the ones that define the SMV of other men.

This makes sense intuitively.

If a man isn't respected by other men, a woman who pairs with that man will see his & her boundaries repeatedly tested and undermined.

Women want men respected by other men.
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