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In a big W for the LGBTQ+ community, everyone's fav, #ElliotPage has now come out as trans!
While we are in awe of his courage, his message is also a sobering reminder of how allies can always do better. Here's a guide on how to be a better ally for trans people:
While we are in awe of his courage, his message is also a sobering reminder of how allies can always do better. Here's a guide on how to be a better ally for trans people:
Firstly, never use their birth name! 
There is a reason why it is popularly known as a "deadname". Don't say, "(Deadname) has come out and is now known as Elliot." A nice way to refer can be using work. Eg: Elliot Page, known for his work in Juno has come out as trans. 
There is a reason why it is popularly known as a "deadname". Don't say, "(Deadname) has come out and is now known as Elliot." A nice way to refer can be using work. Eg: Elliot Page, known for his work in Juno has come out as trans.
Use the right pronouns! 
In the case that you are unsure, it's better to ask than to misgender someone. A simple question that can be used in most situations is, "What are your pronouns?".
In the case that you are unsure, it's better to ask than to misgender someone. A simple question that can be used in most situations is, "What are your pronouns?".
Avoid backhanded comments that dilute their identity. 
"You look just like a real man!"
"I would have never guessed he was trans!"
"Maybe you should change your voice to be more convincing."
"You look just like a real man!" "I would have never guessed he was trans!""Maybe you should change your voice to be more convincing."
DO NOT ask about their sexuality, surgical status, or sex life. 
These answers to these questions are deeply personal and private.
These answers to these questions are deeply personal and private.
Allyship Grammar lesson #101. 
Transgender is an adjective. Not a noun.
He is a transgender person.
They are transgender people.
He is a transgender.
They are transgenders.
Transgender is an adjective. Not a noun. He is a transgender person. They are transgender people. He is a transgender. They are transgenders.
Finally, there is no one perfect way to be an ally. But it is very important to be aware, respectful, listen, and continuously improve as you go! 
Resources like http://glaad.org & http://thetrevorproject.org are great online spaces where you can learn more. 
Resources like http://glaad.org & http://thetrevorproject.org are great online spaces where you can learn more.
