Something to think and choose our course of action. #Life #Tension #ATTITUDE #wednesdaythought

A person was worried for a long time, due to which he started living very irritable and tense. He was upset about many things.

That he has to bear all the expenses of the house, the responsibility of the whole family is on him, some relatives or other and his friends visiting him asking for help were bothering him as it kept adding to his expenses.

Thinking these things, he used to get very upset and used to scold the children often and he would fight with his wife on some or the other thing.

One day his son came to him and asked for his help to do school homework. Thus man, already under stress, scolded the son for bothering him. The son, moved away with a hurt look. After a while the man's annoyance subsided.

He then went to his son and found him is asleep with a notebook in his hand. He looked at the notebook and saw that the son has written as part if his homework and the titke attracted his attention.

Title of the Homework title was:

"Things that we don't like initially, but later they are good."
Curiousity got the better of him and he started reading what his son had written. This is what his son had written:

I thank my final exam very much because initially they do not look good at all, but after these, we get school holidays.
I thank the bitter medicines with bad taste because at first they seem bitter but they cure me from the disease.

I thank the alarm clock that awakens me every morning that tells me that I am alive.
I also thank God very much who gave me such a good father because his scolding initially makes me feel bad but he brings toys for me, takes me to out and I get good things to eat.

Am happy that I have a dather because my friend, Murali, does not have a father.

After reading the child's homework, the person suddenly "woke" up from his sleep. His thinking changed. The things written by the child were wandering in his mind again and again. Especially that last line.

He started thinking about his problems. I have to bear all the expenses of the house, it means that I have a home and by the grace of God I am in a better position than those who do not have a home.

I have to bear the responsibility of the whole family, it means that I have a family, wife and children, and by the grace of God, I am more fortunate than those who do not have family and are completely alone in the world.

Some friend or relative keeps coming to me, it means that I have a social status and I have people who support me in my happiness and sorrow.
Oh god Thank you so much •••
Forgive me, I did not recognize your grace.

After this, his thinking changed completely. All his troubles, all the worries, tensions ended like fog disappearing when Sun comes up.

Whatever problems we have, we will be surrounded by troubles as long as we look at them negatively, but as soon as we see the same things, the same situations with a positive view, a different perspective our thinking will change completely.

To quote from Taarak Mehta ka Ooltah Chashma, " Problems to hai sabke saath, par nazariye ki hai baat" meaning problems are there with everyone but it is the perspective that matters. // WA Forward.

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