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If you’re gonna preach love and understanding, but simultaneously not allow a person room to learn from their mistakes, what exactly is your end game? How is there any way to actually come out better from that? Or are you too caught up in your self righteous indignation to care?
My mother’s death has put so much into perspective for me and this app being an absolute cesspool is part of that. It’s largely why I’ve been so absent as of late. But the shit I’ve seen over the last few days has been just another reminder of why I’ll continue to keep my
Distance and no longer be absorbed in the bullshit that is social media. I saw someone else say it. You don’t actually know these people. You make snap judgments based on a fleeting moment in time and decide you are judge, jury and executioner. But go ahead and keep doing you.
You’ll also one day find yourself in a position where you fuck up and someone judges you exactly the same way. You’ll want some understanding. You’ll apologize and have it refused. You’ll make steps to be a better person and it will be called performative. Have fun with that.
All of us are human and are never going to be able to satisfy every single person because so many of us believe our way of doing things is the only way. And when you’re standing alone on your self made pedestal? Don’t wonder how you got there.
And to add one more thing. People are quick to say “it’s not my job to teach you, google is free.” You know what else google is? Full of bad fucking information. So yes, you are not required to sit down and give someone all the info they need. But, how much energy are you really
Expending by just pointing someone to the correct resources? People learn from one another but if you just tell them to fuck off into the vast world of the internet, you’re setting them up for failure. We’ve become so fucking self absorbed in the mentality that we don’t need to
Help one another. I’m fucking sick of it. Truthfully I feel like some of y’all do it on purpose so when these people do fail, you can sit there and feel all good about yourself while going “see, I told you so. They’re a bad person.”
And if you take exception to anything I’ve had to say? You know where the unfollow button is. Trust me there will be zero hard feelings about it. There won’t be any feelings at all. It’s not worth my time or energy.
