I'm kinda mad that PUAs, redpill dudes, and also just general creeps made it all but impossible to talk about "seduction" and "game" and whatnot online

even the words feel icky now, but there is a real subject of "how do I find and get close with people who want to play around"

there's a lot to it -- depending on your social roles, presentation, kind of people you're interested in, there's a lot of variance; the whole part of how to send out feelers for interest; how to flirt and be both safe and have a spark; how to figure out what people might be into

you can do all of this without being (non-consensually) objectifying, or without stepping on toes of people who want nothing to do with you

whether this is how to make yourself appealing or how to pick up on it, how to dance around conversations, judge interest, follow up, etc.

anyway, I feel like I had no idea how to do this and at some point I got pretty decent at it

and I'm curious to talk about it but where do you even talk about this kind of stuff lmao