My newest, AGP & sexual abuse:
‘He accused me of trying to shame him when I gagged at the smell of his silicone toys mixed with alkyl nitrate fumes and bodily fluids' https://uncommongroundmedia.com/agp-males-domestic-abuse-part-iii-sexual-abuse/

‘night after night, the [anal rape] continued despite my grim, soundless struggles to get him to stop… ‘Finally after weeks of this, after getting up one morning bleeding again, I started crying’ https://uncommongroundmedia.com/agp-males-domestic-abuse-part-iii-sexual-abuse/

'Paul liked to rape her while he was dressed in lingerie... she told Paul she couldn’t have sex with him because she was in too much pain... in response ‘he turned me over so my back was to him, and had sex with me anyway. Tears streaming down my cheeks’.

'It is no coincidence that transgender/transsexual ideology has become so popular as pornography has become mainstream. Porn objectifies women, breaking them up into sexualised parts and pushing the idea of women existing to sexually satisfy men'

' It eroticises the submission of women and male dominance and men get aroused by women’s oppression.'

I couldn't reconcile what I was being told by men and certain 'feminists' with what transwidows were saying and my own knowledge of domestic abuse. It didn't make sense that sometimes coercive control or rape isn't coercive control and rape, because of what he was wearing.