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1) You can’t read pro for more than a few minutes without someone asking: Is he/she/are they coming back? In my experience: 9 times outta 10 people are better off without ‘em. That’s why they’re asking the question.
So humans, before asking, ask yourself why you’re asking it
So humans, before asking, ask yourself why you’re asking it
2) Why’s the question feel urgent? Are you afraid they will come back? Afraid they won’t? Why is fear present at all? What happens if they don’t? Are there consequences you’re imagining or real ones? Do you struggle with anxiety, generally? Are your parents emotionally distant?
3) Did you endure a prior trauma or difficulty which involved someone leaving? Did you have a parent who was not present when you were a child? Were you raised with an unhealthy definition of love? Do you need to rewrite your love languages?
4) Did someone in your household, in your childhood, struggle with a mental health issue? Did your grandparents?
Why am I asking these questions? Because these are the usual reasons I see clients struggling so hard with this question. It’s rarely about the present relationship.
Why am I asking these questions? Because these are the usual reasons I see clients struggling so hard with this question. It’s rarely about the present relationship.
5) It’s not that you shouldn’t wonder these things or ask these questions. These are just indicators, imo, that you may benefit from looking beyond the present question to see what’s under it. Those are the answers more likely to give you peace and growth.
6) And tbh my guides won’t always answer this question. They often home in on these others issues. Because that’s what tarot cards do. It’s why they’re such a great tool. Tarot is often not about easy answers. Expecting it to be isn’t a realistic mindset.
7) And even if the guides/cards are willing to be clear about it, it’s also likely you won’t like the answer. In which case, especially, refer back to the questions I asked up-thread. Because the answers to those are more likely to be useful to you, or at least get you thinking.
