How to become inevitable:

1 - Vision

You need a vision.

Not one implemented into you by external programming.

You'll only able to realize what your vision is when you look inside of you.

Remove the external.

Isolate.

Become one with yourself.

Then, write whatever comes to mind.

After you dump it all on paper

Build upon it.

Where would you like to be?

What would you like to own?

Who would you like to be with?

What type of person do you want to become?

Physically, financially, spiritually.

All of it.

What would you like to have achieved by then...

Be specific.

The more specific you are, the more clear the vision becomes.

With clarity, taking action becomes 10x easier.

Removes the friction that comes naturally with the fear of the unknown.

Also, take into account what you're naturally good at.

Again, this vision has to come from within.

Maybe there's a guy doing something and making a lot of money off of it, and maybe you'd like to be like him...

But don't forget that whatever he does might not fit with your natural talents.

To become the best, it has to feel like play.

If it doesn't, you'll never be at the top doing it.

Just how it is.

2 - Plan

Formulate a plan.

"What actions do I need to take over a specific period of time to make this vision a reality?"

Study those who've done it similarly.

Don't copy.

Figure out the useful things in their journey.

Discard the bad.

Okay, now you've got a picture of what you need to do.

Time to break it into micro-steps.

"What actions do I need to do on a daily basis?"

Write it down.

Be specific.

Do a set amount of things, for a set amount of time on a daily basis.

This is how progress happens.

It's better to do it daily than to do it hard once a week.

Always make a log of your daily progress.

This will allow you to iterate as you go.

"What's not measured, cannot be improved."

3 - Execution

The hardest part.

But not so much... If you do the previous steps.

Still, how does one remove the friction of execution?

There are complimentary things.

Let's talk about them...

Be intentional.

I believe the way we do one thing is really the way we do all things.

If put generally low-effort into something, it's likely you're a person that puts low-effort in general.

So, be more intentional when doing things.

Even if it's small stuff.

Aim to do it well and be competent.

This is how you build the habit of doing things intentionally.

Implement complementary healthy habits.

Lifting.

A good diet.

Good sleep.

Learn how to do these things.

If your T is high, you'll much more likely:

1 - Have higher energy.

2 - Be willing to take more risks.

Also...

Realize that it will always be uncomfortable.

Talking to that girl is uncomfortable.

Start that biz is uncomfortable.

Chasing after big goals is uncomfortable.

There's no way around it.

Accept this and prime yourself for it.

How?

Get yourself in uncomfortable situations willingly.

Doesn't have to be hard stuff either.

Force yourself to take that cold shower.

Force yourself to be more social if you're awkward.

Start small.

This will give you the baggage and grit so you don't have problems when it's time to go bigger.

Also...

Just do it.

No matter how much advice I give you.

It will never be done, if you don't do it.

Realize that it doesn't really matter if you fail or not.

You'll make mistakes.

You'll fuck it up.

And no matter how far you look...

You will never find the perfect step-by-step plan that is perfectly adaptable to you.

It doesn't exist out there.

It's up to you to create it yourself.

I don't want to make this thread longer than it has to be.

Point is... Realize that you're the architect of your own reality...

And whatever you want out of life, is achievable.

You can become inevitable.

Thank you for reading.

Your friend, David.