One thing I will not be doing from here on in is callouts or activism work within the #brony fandom. I'm through with this.
I've seen how it works.
I've seen how it works.
Someone recently made a purposefully misleading statement like "Tinker said an abuse victim is worse than the abuser". This makes it sound like I'm saying "when someone is abused, they are more guilty than the abuser". And that is not what I said at all. That would be abhorrent.
What I said was "If you're willing to kill random people for Thanksgiving dinner, it would make you worse than your abuser." I said they'd be worse for being willing to literally let people die. The "letting people die" is the bad part. This was purposefully obscured to smear me.
But it was depicted, over and over, as "Tinker said an abuse victim is worse than their abuser". Which isn't what I believe.
What I believed is that *killing people* is worse than abuse.
This was intentionally obscured to attack me, and it worked.
What I believed is that *killing people* is worse than abuse.
This was intentionally obscured to attack me, and it worked.
This is far from the first time such intentional twisting and use of out-of-context sentences and phrasing has been used to attack me, to grossly misrepresent my beliefs and my words.
Here are my exact words, in context.
The words in red were intentionally taken out of context.
Here are my exact words, in context.
The words in red were intentionally taken out of context.
I did not say "victims are worse than their abusers".
I said, to one very specific victim of abuse, "if you are willing to kill strangers, it will— for the first time in your life— make you worse than your abuser."
Because it would make them complicit in literal death.
I said, to one very specific victim of abuse, "if you are willing to kill strangers, it will— for the first time in your life— make you worse than your abuser."
Because it would make them complicit in literal death.
But that is not what people have been screaming about on Twitter. My words have been intentionally distorted to make me look like a victim-blaming monster who thinks that victims are somehow responsible for their own abuse.
I don't think that, and I never did.
I don't think that, and I never did.
Selective quoting and twisting words is a common tactic of both the 4chan/8chan/kiwifarms alt-right crowd and some of the more shrill Tumblr leftists (and the overlap between those groups is more porous than you may think).
It's a tactic that's been used against me many times.
It's a tactic that's been used against me many times.
And I'm done opening myself up for being a punching-bag, for having my words willfully distorted and weaponised against me, by being involved in the politics of brony fandom.
Bronydom is full of alt-right chuds, cryptofascists, & outright nazi apologists.
Find someone else to fight them. I'm done. I quit.
The next time Gabe (or anyone) comes within spitting distance of quoting the 14 Words or DashPony1488 posts Aryanne memes, find another champion.
Find someone else to fight them. I'm done. I quit.
The next time Gabe (or anyone) comes within spitting distance of quoting the 14 Words or DashPony1488 posts Aryanne memes, find another champion.
This post saying I "harassed, manipulated, gas light (sic), bribed, [and] black mailed (sic)" got 61 retweets and 67 likes without once mentioning that I was comparing "literally killing people" to abuse.
That bit was completely obscured— intentionally so— to make me look awful.
That bit was completely obscured— intentionally so— to make me look awful.
My post calling out Gabe for reposting white supremacist memes about "white slavery" and "white people being attacked for being white"— which did not distort his words in the slightest— got less than half as many retweets, and around the same number of likes... in over two weeks.
There's an old saying that goes something like "A lie can travel halfway around the world before the truth can get its boots on".
This has always been true for me.
Purposeful distortions of problematic things I say get HUGE traction, leading to massive dogpiling and hate on me.
This has always been true for me.
Purposeful distortions of problematic things I say get HUGE traction, leading to massive dogpiling and hate on me.
All it takes, for me, is one bad turn of phrase.
I was wrong to tell an abuse victim "if you kill people, it will make you worse than your abuser".
But it's remarkable that this has somehow gotten more traction, far faster, than "BlackGryph0n spreads white supremacist ideas".
I was wrong to tell an abuse victim "if you kill people, it will make you worse than your abuser".
But it's remarkable that this has somehow gotten more traction, far faster, than "BlackGryph0n spreads white supremacist ideas".
All the while, I've been trying, without any luck, to get con orgs in the #brony fandom to denounce BlackGryph0n for spreading white supremacist talking points.
I am through fighting losing battles against genuine evil, while I'm pilloried for every poorly chosen talking point.
I am through fighting losing battles against genuine evil, while I'm pilloried for every poorly chosen talking point.
I'm through having my words and ideas twisted and having people tell dozens or hundreds or thousands of followers that I believe things I don't believe, or dogpiling me over one ill-chosen talking point when my core point is utterly benign ("don't kill people for Thanksgiving").
You are free to believe whatever you want. You can think "Tinker hates abuse victims" all you want. It won't make it true, but you're free to think it. What I hate is people hurting or killing other people.
And I'm tired of defending myself, and tired of screaming into the void.
And I'm tired of defending myself, and tired of screaming into the void.
Feel free to come to me to RT other peoples' words, or to inform me of the latest horrors in the non-brony world that I may wish to speak out against (the usual modern horrors: kids in cages, bigoted laws, people locked up for life for stealing a $9 item, etc).
Not brony stuff.
Not brony stuff.
Because, again, I'm sick of it. I'm sick of one poorly chosen talking point like this being turned into an excuse to play "bash the Tinker".
I'm through. I cannot take this any more. This IS abuse. I HAVE been abused by this fandom.
Find another activist. https://twitter.com/prpltnkr/status/1332245410597912578?s=20
I'm through. I cannot take this any more. This IS abuse. I HAVE been abused by this fandom.
Find another activist. https://twitter.com/prpltnkr/status/1332245410597912578?s=20
These people do not want to engage with me. They do not want to improve me. They just want to form a hate mob to bash me.
And the same people largely ignore actual, real evil within the same fandom.
I'm done. Don't @ me with the latest white-supremacist brony crap.
And the same people largely ignore actual, real evil within the same fandom.
I'm done. Don't @ me with the latest white-supremacist brony crap.
After a week like this, I'm through sticking out my neck for the troll brigades. https://twitter.com/prpltnkr/status/1332655574324965376?s=20