Can I get on my soapbox for a second?

Maybe this is more personal, but it’s something I think about a lot. I’m interested in women and our sexuality and identities. In fact it can be personal for me.

I’ve grown up with the idea that sexy or sexual women were “bad.” If I ever became a woman like that, it’d show a lack of self-respect. It’s frustrating how demonized it is.

I felt so much guilt when I was younger for enjoying sexy video game women, sexy women in music videos, etc. As I grew older, I realized it was okay and natural to enjoy the imagery. Sexual women aren’t dirty or less worthy of respect.

Express yourself however you see fit so long as you aren’t hurting anyone. Stop making women feel bad for not fitting into your ideals.

Hope this made sense. I’m a little tired rn