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jkay
dating for me is trying to get to know the person— what are their religious, political, social values? were the traits that drew you in a one off thing or is it their personality? how is their vibe?? do you see yall long term? do yall bounce off each other's positive energy? (1)
i also want to know what are their future goals. what do they plan to do? do those plans include you? and if so, how would it positively benefit you? do yall help each other grow emotionally (maturity)??
then (for me) i want to know our compatibility in the sheets. this is totally up to you but if you are someone who is a lot more dependent on this factor then you might want to center your focus here. each to their own.
last thing is (to me) the MOST important. will i lose feelings for this person? this would be your gut feeling. sometimes the person might be the perfect one objectively but your gut feeling may say otherwise. i suggest you just leave before feelings fade and things get messy.
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