I'm concerned because... Faith spaces idolized the institution of marriage... But never went back and empowered the people to have healthy, communicative, well balanced relationships.

I need to help us because... We keep doing things that are not great...

I can't tell you if your relationship is going to be successful... That ain't my gift... BUT... REGARDLESS of it the relationship makes it or not... We still supposed to be Christian towards each other...

You was acting all saved and sanctified when you was trying to get to know them... Praying all early before the sun came up ... But now things done went left... You forgot the words of prayer

I'm more concerned with our failure to behave as holders of the light towards our intimate partners

The other issue is and I'mma be done... If you feel like God is giving you green lights... You can't take the greens and ignore the reds... Beloved those lights come together... Receive both

You know good and full well God ain't told you three people in the same church was for you... God ain't did that

As much as y'all love God... Why don't the Lord tell y'all "no" more often???

You mean to tell me everybody that's interested in you come from God??? All of them???

We be so spiritual it's unhealthy...

Everything that's fine ain't divine...

If it's God everytime why ain't God sent you more people you weren't attracted to????

It is okay to be physically attracted to people and not put the weight of them having been sent by a deity... To certify your desire

It is okay to date people and they not be a "partner for life"

I don't know why the saints feel as if every person we have an intimate relationship with is IT.

Yes I do... That was a tale... There is so much anxiety but into sex for the saints... That every person you have sex with... Got to be the one to justify your choices

Now stop. You stop that right now.

Y'all done made two instagram posts and it's supposed to be till death??? I want us to stop now... And let's have a sensible conversation about what single folks who luh God are facing today.

Stop telling these people they got to turn off biological responses of arousal so they can follow Jesus... Your arousal is holy as well as your consensual expression... The responsibility is yours

Y'all is too grown for this... Don't be out here testifying you done closed the candy shop if samples are still in circulation

Practice sexual ethics that are consensual, honest, and joyful

God gave you your body... Those decisions are yours... Own them... Honor them... Enjoy them.