that “you shouldn’t marry boys in your class” line contributes heavy to the grooming teenagers and you can’t change my mind

they’ll tell you boys in your class are not mature blah blah and your husband is already in university or in shs 3 while you’re probably in jhs 1-3, it is concerning somewhat

my thoughts aren’t making this come out clearer but i realized that it does massively contribute to how young girls don’t recognize when older men are grooming them and it’s worrying

understandably it’s not wrong to want to marry an older man but it’s very concerning to see a 17 year old dating someone who’s 25 etc anaa mabodam?