Someone flirting with your woman is not the issue.

Her flirting back is.

Don't control women. Raise your standards & set your boundaries.

You want character, not just obedience

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The more you control a woman, the more you test her obedience and the less you reveal her true character.

The more you control, the more you communicate to her that you’re not the man you should be,

and so you control her in an attempt enforce devotion.

Controlling your woman indicates distrust, weakness, & a lot of time on your hands.

Its a habit of weak men who lack purpose in life. You shouldn't care about documenting her every move.

You should simply communicate your values & your intolerance if she fails to uphold them.

Men's control should stem from protection, NOT from her ability to withstand temptation.

There's a distinct difference between the two.

Protection requires control, & therefore obedience.

Resisting temptation requires observation, & therefore demonstration of character.

If a man fails to control a woman when protection necessitates it, then he is no man.

If a man documents every part of a womans life, then he has no purpose,

or worse; SHE is his purpose.

Nothing short of weakness.

Controlling her, tests her obedience.

Letting her decide, tests her character.

Letting her decide AFTER you've made your values clear to her, will test her devotion to you.

If a woman is obsessed with you, control is unnecessary. She'll go out of her way to uphold your values.

It’s in your best interest to allow the significance of her character to reveal itself.

You want a relationship where devotion, attraction & admiration is real.

Her character under pressure reveals who you’re in bed with.

Not her obedience handcuffed to do what you command.

Stop caring about women in a controlling manner.

Set your standards. Set your boundaries.

And be intolerant. The rest is up to her.

Let character determine devotion.

Not obedience.