Usually the sentiment: “I don’t need a man, I don’t need a family, I’m good by myself”
Is a way to cope with the fact that finding a good partner and building a family is very challenging to do. And people pressuring you may not be empathetic to the struggle.

It’s easier to admit you don’t want something than to admit that you’re struggling, especially to yourself.

To admit that you’re struggling, also admits that you’re doing something wrong.

One must overcome her pride to admit some parts of her must change to get what she wants

Admitting what you truly want, especially to yourself, is a very brave thing to do when there is a possibility that you may not get it.

When it is daunting, focus less on what you want and more on practicing the values of the kind of person who achieves that goal.