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10 brutally honest reasons why GOOD subs leave
1) They didn't know Her, they just knew Her Twitter persona
There was a Domme who had the best TPE posts. They were amazing! But when I started serving Her, She didn't do any of that stuff She talked about in the tweets
1) They didn't know Her, they just knew Her Twitter persona
There was a Domme who had the best TPE posts. They were amazing! But when I started serving Her, She didn't do any of that stuff She talked about in the tweets
2) There was a problem with connecting due to schedule
D/s requires time. I ended my BEST D/s relationship ever because my work schedule got too busy for me to be able to serve and connect with Her. I didn't want to end it, but W/we could both see how things were changing
D/s requires time. I ended my BEST D/s relationship ever because my work schedule got too busy for me to be able to serve and connect with Her. I didn't want to end it, but W/we could both see how things were changing
3) He was still paying, but getting less
It happens. Dommes get busy with other subs and real life and They stop doing the little things They did at the start. They used to tease you at work all the time, come up with creative ways to torture or punish. But then that stopped
It happens. Dommes get busy with other subs and real life and They stop doing the little things They did at the start. They used to tease you at work all the time, come up with creative ways to torture or punish. But then that stopped
4) Vanilla circumstances changed
She got a bf, and She didn't think it changed things, but it did. She or he got a new job. Sickness, family issues, financial issues, got married, had a baby, etc...
And those things changed Her demeanor more than She could realize
Life happens
She got a bf, and She didn't think it changed things, but it did. She or he got a new job. Sickness, family issues, financial issues, got married, had a baby, etc...
And those things changed Her demeanor more than She could realize
Life happens
5) She got bitter
Experiences in twitter findom or in real life turned Her negative. The sub tried to lift Her spirits but nothing worked. So he ghosted Her or made up an excuse about why he had to leave
He looks like the bad guy, but it was Her negativity that pushed him away
Experiences in twitter findom or in real life turned Her negative. The sub tried to lift Her spirits but nothing worked. So he ghosted Her or made up an excuse about why he had to leave
He looks like the bad guy, but it was Her negativity that pushed him away
6) Drama, Drama, Drama!!!!
He finally had enough of Her fighting with other Dommes. He defended Her at first but eventually he realized that SHE is the source of the drama. She's not the victim, She's the culprit.
He finally had enough of Her fighting with other Dommes. He defended Her at first but eventually he realized that SHE is the source of the drama. She's not the victim, She's the culprit.
7) She changed Her rates, went Pro-Domme or Full-time
Nothing wrong with that, but he can't afford it anymore. She got more popular and the law of supply and demand applies. He tried to keep up but he couldn't.
Once again, he either ghosts or lies to Her about why he's leaving
Nothing wrong with that, but he can't afford it anymore. She got more popular and the law of supply and demand applies. He tried to keep up but he couldn't.
Once again, he either ghosts or lies to Her about why he's leaving
8) She started leaning on him too much
He stopped being Her sub and started being Her emotional support.
And now he feels stuck and has to ghost or lie
He stopped being Her sub and started being Her emotional support.
And now he feels stuck and has to ghost or lie
9) Building on the last one, She develops feelings for him
Sometimes it works, sure. But sometimes it makes him run away.
And finally...
Sometimes it works, sure. But sometimes it makes him run away.
And finally...
10) The D/s died of natural causes
Relationships end.
People change. New kinks get discovered.
Sometimes She fights to keep him because he's become a constant in Her life. Or, his money has been a constant in Her bank account. So it's hard for Her to accept when it's over.
Relationships end.
People change. New kinks get discovered.
Sometimes She fights to keep him because he's become a constant in Her life. Or, his money has been a constant in Her bank account. So it's hard for Her to accept when it's over.
