You can experience people and not get lost in them. The key is remembering who you were before you entered the experience, and returning back to that time and time again. There's three energies in a relationship. Yours, theirs, & the union itself. Don't let it get messy

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Keep your plans and your lifestyle intact. Make space of course, compromise of course, but keep what's meant for you, for you. You worked hard to find yourself, let that person you tried so hard to find, stay.

Everything in moderation. Anything extreme or excessive will always capsize. The world and we as humans thrive on balance. If you think you don't and you just "love hard" then why does it always come to shit?

Did you have a hobby before you met this person? Values? A certain way of carrying yourself, a goal you've been trying to achieve? Why did it stop? If they don't influence it in a positive direction or add to it, step back and regain your center, energies are meshing.

Make your schedule of great importance, you're always on your own to do list. Fill each cup equally, but always make sure your cup gets the first taste. We're unpleasant when we're drained, we're unpleasant when we're constantly giving and the scales start tipping.

If they leave who's left to clean up the mess? You. Take your time, like REALLY take your time.