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Disagree with your parents early so they are taken down from the overseer position in your life early.
If you don't do that dance early, na fight every disagreement go turn too. It would be terrible if the first disagreement is on Who to marry? Ah
If you don't do that dance early, na fight every disagreement go turn too. It would be terrible if the first disagreement is on Who to marry? Ah
this is where you take control of your life first.
A sweet spot to start from is 'I don't want to go to the family Church again'
After that one, try 'I don't want to go to a wedding they had preconceived without letting you know'
Step by step, they get the message.
A sweet spot to start from is 'I don't want to go to the family Church again'
After that one, try 'I don't want to go to a wedding they had preconceived without letting you know'
Step by step, they get the message.
then your final card should be 'I am moving out to my place'
At this point, they will know.
If they don't, then it is time for that firm sit down conversation about boundaries and respecting your choices - while affirming them of their importance in your life.
At this point, they will know.
If they don't, then it is time for that firm sit down conversation about boundaries and respecting your choices - while affirming them of their importance in your life.
For clarity, 'Disagree' doesn't infer disrespect or fight, it means to have a stance that is yours and to let them know if it differs from their preference.
Honour is not only in accepting what is said, but it is also in rejecting and communicating initiative gracefully.
Honour is not only in accepting what is said, but it is also in rejecting and communicating initiative gracefully.
Here is another thread on Parenting if you are interested https://twitter.com/Amb_Ore/status/1266302046057033730?s=20
