The left has a serious ableism issue that it's gotta fucking stop with.
My phones almost dead so I'm not up to finding resources rn.
But seriously I'm about to give my analysis of the cluster b disorders and their (often misogynistic/femme phobic) stigmas and history
My phones almost dead so I'm not up to finding resources rn.
But seriously I'm about to give my analysis of the cluster b disorders and their (often misogynistic/femme phobic) stigmas and history
Alright i guess ill start with bpd. That's what i have and my mom too.
Borderline personality disorder is diagnosed in women ~75% of the time, tho the sample may not be fully representative
Either way, it's highly associated w Womanness.
So let's look at synptoms/Bojacks bio
Borderline personality disorder is diagnosed in women ~75% of the time, tho the sample may not be fully representative
Either way, it's highly associated w Womanness.
So let's look at synptoms/Bojacks bio
I'll even mark my symptoms.
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An intense fear of abandonment (getting better)
A pattern of unstable intense relationships, such as idealizing someone one moment and then suddenly believing the person doesn't care enough or is cruel (better)
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An intense fear of abandonment (getting better)
A pattern of unstable intense relationships, such as idealizing someone one moment and then suddenly believing the person doesn't care enough or is cruel (better)
Rapid changes in self-identity and self-image that include shifting goals and values, and seeing yourself as bad or as if you don't exist at all (v strong)
Periods of stress-related paranoia and loss of contact with reality, lasting from a few minutes to a few hours (v strong)
Periods of stress-related paranoia and loss of contact with reality, lasting from a few minutes to a few hours (v strong)
Impulsive and risky behavior, such as gambling, reckless driving, unsafe sex, spending sprees, binge eating or drug abuse, or sabotaging success by suddenly quitting a good job or ending a positive relationship (rarely/anxiety is a hell of a brake for impulsive urges)
Suicidal threats or behavior or self-injury, often in response to fear of separation or rejection (not as bad, and i never let people know when they do make me feel suicidal, anymore. I had a bad role model as a teen and was taught 0 coping skills.)
Wide mood swings lasting from a few hours to a few days, which can include intense happiness, irritability, shame or anxiety (yeah)
Ongoing feelings of emptiness (yeah)
Ongoing feelings of emptiness (yeah)
Inappropriate, intense anger, such as frequently losing your temper, being sarcastic or bitter, or having physical fights
(I don't physically fight hardly ever. I don't think at all as an adult)
(I don't physically fight hardly ever. I don't think at all as an adult)
What kind of pattern do you see? Does it seem maybe..."hysterical" or "crazy bitch syndrome"?
It's not a shocker media representation literally includes a show called "crazy ex girlfriend". (discourse on bpd portrayal aside, the bi song is a banger tho)
It's not a shocker media representation literally includes a show called "crazy ex girlfriend". (discourse on bpd portrayal aside, the bi song is a banger tho)
Because socially we are trained to dismiss "over emotional" women. To fear those who Get Too Attached. To demonize strong or unstable relationships rather than learning to channel it.
It's no surprise bpd women are often raped, beaten, shot, etc and then get blamed or ignored
It's no surprise bpd women are often raped, beaten, shot, etc and then get blamed or ignored
Strong or unstable moods, not relationships lmao. Unstable relationships are usually bad