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ok let me help you. if you are talking to a woman you don’t know who is not showing very clear expressed interest in talking to you, you’re being creepy. if she’s ALONE you’re definitely being creepy. if you think she’s playing “hard to get” you’re being creepy https://twitter.com/gratefui_ed/status/1327344841727029248
if a woman has headphones in and you’re trying to talk to her, you’re being creepy. making a sexual comment to her when you’re not in a sexual relationship already? creepy. she’s on public transportation? creepy. if you don’t have a good reason to talk to her you’re being creepy
i do not buy this bullshit whatsoever that men don’t know when they’re being creepy. if you don’t know it’s because you’ve never bothered to find out how it feels to be a girl or you know you’re skating that line and you hope this is the time it works for you.
if you don’t know if you’re being creepy or not then you should err on the safe side and not do it. but that’s not what most men do, is it? no, you think the chance that you’ll get laid is more important than the chance that you are terrifying her.
if you TRULY do NOT know what is creepy, then you are not ready to talk to women at all and so yes, let me be the one to tell you, you are creepy. the fact that you’ve never bothered to find out inherently means you are a creepy man.
see how in this joke both things are the man being creepy and are his problem to solve? that’s your creepy brain to take care of. not to unleash on the women of the world. https://twitter.com/gratefui_ed/status/1327345920338522114
acting like the presence or absence of attraction and consent is some crazy girl thing is incel bullshit. of course women like familiarity from men they like and don’t from men they don’t like or don’t even know. everyone feels that way. https://twitter.com/gratefui_ed/status/1327347392815960065
are some men more attractive to a larger group of women than others? yeah, that’s normal and fine. it’s not shallow, you’re just insecure. and it’s a fucking SNL skit, not real life. attractive men can absolutely be creepy and terrifying. https://twitter.com/gratefui_ed/status/1327347576060960769
The fact that I told you what is creepy and you decided that you don’t care is exactly why this whole “men don’t know when we’re being creepy!” thing is bullshit. You know. You don’t care. You think the slightest chance of getting your dick wet is more important. https://twitter.com/gratefui_ed/status/1327364237090500614
Women get murdered by men when they reject them all the time. You are okay with making a woman feel that fear on the off chance that this time, it will work for you. Because that’s who you are as a person, that is why you’re creepy, so anything you do will be creepy.
And that’s the crux of why there isn’t a reference guide of what’s creepy and what’s not and why something is creepy coming from one guy and not from another is because it’s about who you are. If you don’t respect women, if you have a deep seated hatred of us, we can tell.
A man who has taken the time to learn about women’s perspective, who understands and values consent, who genuinely never wants to make a woman scared, will be paying attention to her behavior to see if there are clear signs of interest. Because he gives a shit.
A not creepy man accepts that not every woman he likes is interested and that it’s not a fault of hers, or of women. A creepy man will blame women & believe he doesn’t get a chance because women are shallow & only like tall men with abs. because he doesn’t really see us as people
A creepy man is always creepy because he never bothers to see women as whole individual human beings instead of stereotypes and sexual objects. He blames women for rejection bc he’s insecure. He blames rejection on his attractiveness & women’s shallow standards.
But women are not rejecting you because you’re ugly. It’s because you don’t care about women as people, don’t care about her feelings or perspective, get mean when you get rejected, and are deeply insecure and self-hating. Why would women like you? What’s there to like?
If you don’t know if you’re being creepy, can’t tell if a woman likes you, and thinks he gets rejected bc he’s not rich and handsome, let me save you the effort. she does not like you. you are being creepy. no woman will like you until you become a better person.
