I hope binary trans people fully, truly understand that most nonbinary people have to accept VERY early on in transition that we'll never be correctly gendered in our entire lives, and they understand the pain and emotional toll that comes with that realization in the long term

like, I want you to think about how good it felt to hear your correct pronouns for the first time irl, if you have. most nonbinary folks never get to hear that, maybe once or twice in our lives at most? and it's universally true for those of us who use neopronouns, actually

most of us have to accept that fact super early on in order to lower our expectations and reduce the pain that comes with getting constantly misgendered for every single day of our lives *until we die*, that we'll never truly pass as our gender, and it really fucking sucks for us