after reading this thread i think sun women are usually play the MPDG bc they're already independent and don't associate their identity with men. Bc men have no self-respect they fantasise their "ideal wife" as someone who isn't emotionally driven. the thing is sun women are more https://twitter.com/labelleneptune/status/1326724896253235200
than they can handle bc no woman is emotionally vapid like they fantasise about. In reality men can't handle a successful woman who doesn't need them, so they fantasise their ideal wife as someone quirky, cute and "non-intimidating" like the MPDG. They what they can't have.
also this was a great thread and analysis, thank youu!!