Few things I advise people who are in a good/great situation in life is to:
1. Never speak of it with your own tongue (it may burn some of it eventually)
2. Never tell others of your really big successes, it will come out on its own.
3. Hide your real treasures. Never reveal.

4. Spirituality wise, never reveal your best experiences.
5. Reveal experiences decades after they happen if you must ... if you want others to get motivated or to have faith (that fits with Swa Dharma)
6. If harmed, stop those ppl from harming you rather than retaliate.

7. Always promote the next generation of people, especially those who are NOT blood relations if they show promise.
8. Where possible to help, always help. If not possible, try and express sympathy.
9. Try not to laugh at people’s desperation.... no matter how bad they may be.

9. Swa Dharma (for most except kings or rulers) is not Raja Dharma.
Don’t confuse.
Don’t give danda to people unless they have caused serious harm or they are imminently going to cause harm. (It’s not without consequences)

10. Try not to take advantage of people.
If you don’t ask, you get milk, ask and you get water, snatch and you get only blood.

11. The people who hold you together during your moments of crisis and disaster are like diamonds. Keep them happy. They are your real friends.
The woman who sticks beside you in your dark hours (no matter how many rough words she may speak otherwise) is invaluable.