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Maybe banyak yg anggap last minute larangan majlis nikah masa PKP ni not a big deal. If only they knew how many couples and family broke up & putus tunang sbb banyak kali tangguh pernikahan. Planning a wedding is stressful enough but re-planning a wedding repeatedly?? Brutal. 
Imagine all the money loss, deposit burned. Everyone losing income. You can’t guarantee loved ones will always be understanding & patient when the funds are depleting. Worse, when suddenly your livelihood becomes a game of survival. Drp mampu nikah jadi tak mampu. I’m heartbroken
I wonder if the government even cares? The wedding industry is looked over and it’s not just about business. Imagine couples who planned since last year & supposed to get married in March, kena tangguh to October, and still kena cancel their majlis? Not every r/ship will survive.
Imagine having high hopes of marrying your loved one, dreaming and planning for months on end tapi kena tangguh, cuba lagi, tangguh lagi, cuba lagi, last2 break up over something outside of your control?? Siapa je yang suka2 plan nak kahwin masa pandemic. Nobody saw this coming.
Kalau family yang not so well off pula macamana? Ingat banyak ke duit nak tangguh majlis banyak2 kali? Planning & booking involves money. Kdg2 bajet tu cukup makan je utk lepaskan satu majlis nikah yg kecil. Even parents are heartbroken sbb tak mampu nak tolong anak kahwin.
Especially tragic when everyone genuinely tried to accommodate & work things out but still ended up in failure & strained relationships. Praying for those of you in these positions, May Allah ease. And for the ones who survived, count your blessings.
Also, online nikah is one thing but it’s not an option available for everyone. So if you can’t relate, at least have some empathy. Don’t minimise other people’s misery.
Rasanya ada yang tak faham, nak nikah “simple ikut rukun islam” masa PKP in October haritu pun not allowed at all. Skrg ni banyak je pengantin yang desperate & sanggup kahwin kat pejabat. Pun kena ikut turn & ada limited slot per day. Kalau tak tau cerita, diam. Dengar je.
At this point mostly couples fikir nak halalkan je and buat nikah paling simple. But the govt has made it so hard to even do just that. Yes pandemic, so many other things to worry about. But aren’t we allowed to RANT? Tak cerita psl us in the wedding industry yg out of work lagi.
