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confidence comes from identifying and focusing on aspects of yourself you think are dope; when you do this you psyop others into focusing on those parts as well
this makes you attractive, more so than someone who looks like you but lacks the confidence https://twitter.com/chelscore/status/1301710910151561216
this makes you attractive, more so than someone who looks like you but lacks the confidence https://twitter.com/chelscore/status/1301710910151561216
people want to like others, but are fundamentally lazy and want to be shown what there is to like
so if you present the best parts of yourself up front, people are more likely to see them, and subsequently to like you
potentially even more so than someone with more good parts
so if you present the best parts of yourself up front, people are more likely to see them, and subsequently to like you
potentially even more so than someone with more good parts
but if you, instead, focus on your less-than-stellar parts and present them upfront, people will be more likely to see them than they would otherwise, and hence think you're less attractive than someone with the same physical characteristics, who doesn't hamstring themselves
the trouble comes when you refuse to look inward and find things to like about yourself, because for whatever reason you believe that there is A Correct Way To Be, and that to be attractive you have to be More Like That
many people are blinded by idealism and strive for divinity
many people are blinded by idealism and strive for divinity
when you focus on characteristics you may not have, then you're effectively focusing on negative things about yourself and broadcasting them to others
you are actively telling others reasons why you're not good enough, measured against an ideal they often do not themselves value
you are actively telling others reasons why you're not good enough, measured against an ideal they often do not themselves value
there is infinite beauty available to us in all things; the goal of naturalness (wu wei) and enlightenment (oneness) is to strip off the cognitive blinders you've put on yourself, and open up to the positive energy all around us
when you look for the light, you'll find it.
when you look for the light, you'll find it.
