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I’m about to make some people mad but please note this is my personal opinion and the girl is just tayahd. A thread:
So I’m going to be everywhere with this because I’m venting and I’ll probably delete it all by tomorrow but yeah let’s have a little chat.
So the other day I was on a call with my cousin spilling the weekly tea and I told her about this boy who called me at midnight to say he wants to take me for lunch blah blah blah. 10 minutes after ending the call he goes on to send me a message and a vn to tell me I’m “vain”.
I am a confident human being but I had to build this confidence because growing up I had no self esteem. But now that I’m pretty AND confident I’m told I’m vain!? Cut the cameras.
I was vexed by his comment and blocked him but my cousin said something really insightful. She said that some men have this thing of “humbling” women or belittling them because they know that they’re punching above their weight going for a girl like that. 
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At first I didn’t understand until this afternoon. As I cleaned my bedroom I remembered what @wizha15 said to me the other day, “If you actually look at men yeah they’re actually ugly”. Mind blown!
We call exceptionally good looking gents pretty because they look like girls tbh. The handsome ones still have some ugly in them imo...
So to those gents who feel the need to “humble” women I’ve just come to tell you that your insecurity is justified. You’re ugly. And unfortunately you have decided to be both ugly externally and internally. Pick one struggle. Men can’t multitask.
Makes so much sense now why most women are sapiosexual. Because there’s really nothing to look at when it comes to men. Settling for the bare minimum smh.
